welcome

i'm queer. i say queer a lot. i won't censor my identity for anyone.

i have severe anxiety so i probably won't ever contact you first.

i like poetry and philosophy so if i seem pretentious to you, that's why.

i like to joke around a lot, but if a joke is bothering you or if it's problematic (i promise i don't do it to be edgy, i genuinely won't realize unless you tell me), please please please tell me!

i'm an anarcho-communist. if this bothers you, don't even bother to interact with me.

i'm not a lesbian! femme is not a lesbian-only identity! that is radfem rhetoric and also queerphobic as it was an identity made by poc queer people!

general dni criteria (pro-ship/anti-anti, LGBTQ+phobic, ableist, xenophobic, radfem, transmed/truscum/gender critical, MAP/pedo, etc.)

you're younger than 14, older than 30. nothing against you, it just makes me uncomfortable.

you don't believe in the validity of xenogenders or neopronouns.

you think the SAM is bad or that it can only be used by aspec people.

you think aspec means autism spectrum.

you use slurs you can't reclaim.

you're a bts stan.

you ship real people or read rpf.

you’re a battleaxe bi or support them.

you’re aphobic (alloarophobic, aroacephobic, alloacephobic, call aspec people cishets, think that demi is just ‘the norm’, etc.)